“I love this game,” my sixteen year old exclaims as he comes off the Ultimate Frisbee field. As his mom, I know that not only does he love the game, but his team. Even during a moment of despair or an “epic failure” they call out to each other, “You can cry about it or you can Dance about it,” as they all break into their personal signature dance moves.
I think I get as much out of watching him interact with his team as he does being a part of it. Maybe that is because I know what it means to be member of a team.
I’m the captain of my relay team. We run both “normal” 12 person relays and ultra-relays with a six-person team. Of course, I have people who migrate on and off my team, but there are a core of six who always “Nut Up.” I would do anything they asked that is within my ability to do. Continue reading