Don’t Reinvent the Wheel

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Just about every life path has been walked by someone at some point in time. Of course, some walk the path well while other stumble along and then discover a new route more suited to their character. They may return to finish, or they may follow the new route to its conclusion.

I’m not saying that you can’t put a new spin on how you do something, what I’m getting at is that other people have gone before you. Find them, look at the mistakes and successes they made. Itt will make your journey better.

Mentors act as trusted guides along this journey we call life, where the goal is not to reach the finish line, but to make the most of time we take getting there. Finding a mentor can be a challenge and because we all have different goals and dreams, we may need many mentors. It’s practically a miracle to find someone who has achieved success in all the areas of life that you feel passionate about.

Ideally your mentor will be someone involved in your life, that you have direct access to, because you can ask them face to face (or email) for guidance along the way, and they make goals seem more achievable, more real.

A mentor doesn’t have to be right in front of you. They don’t even have to continue to suck air. They may have lived a hundred years ago. Many times, they don’t even know you think so highly of them and are using their life as an example for your own.

Mentors are a source of inspiration. We all hit roadblocks in our chosen path, and mentors stand out there like a beacon in the night, cheering us on and urging us forward when things become difficult. They are proof that what we desire is achievable, if we want it bad enough.

Being able to look to another and say, “If he/she can do it, so can I,” when taking on difficult goals, whether it be in running, education, or overcoming any other challenge can make the difference in success or failure.

 

4 thoughts on “Don’t Reinvent the Wheel

  1. Martha B December 18, 2014 / 2:12 am

    I definitely agree that having someone to look up to and look to for advice has helped me in every aspect of my life. When I was younger, I wanted to figure it all out on my own. Now that I have a few years of mistake making under my belt, I don’t think twice about asking for help when I need it – or doing lots of research. It saves me so much time, effort, money, and heartache!

    • Nicole Lowe December 18, 2014 / 7:03 pm

      So very very true. Why can’t we realize that when we are younger! :0)

  2. meridethcohrs December 18, 2014 / 9:19 pm

    So true – mentorship is probably one of the more critical components of success. Although I am a professional Holistic Health Coach, I still need coaching myself in certain areas. I think that because I do this for a living, I recognize the areas that I need my own accountability partners as well 🙂

    • Nicole Lowe December 22, 2014 / 2:34 am

      Our ability to improve never ends, we just get better at seeing the gaps.

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